How to Create New Standards and Upgrade Your Life
The Secret to Living a Life More Fulfilled.
We all know the law of attraction is forever working for our greatest good but many of us are stuck within our way and we don’t know why. In this blog post, I’m going to give you some help on how to create a better life for yourself because you deserve it and I want you to create a better life for yourself, for your family, and the next generation.
So are you ready?
Let’s get right into it.
You might ask yourself what is a standard and why are they important?
A standard is a way of living that you set for yourself that you commit to yourself daily; think of it as a way of living.
For example, a standard for me is to eat veggies at every single meal because this creates muscles within my body and in my business to create content every day.
A standard is something that you commit to every single day for the rest of your life to achieve a certain goal but to maintain a certain goal and way of living because achieving a goal is one thing but maintaining it is another.
This is why raising your standards to meet a goal is essential because not a lot of people realize that you have to maintain this goal once you achieve it and not only maintain it but grow it and become the best person you can be.
Your standards fall within this category:
Your Own Self Belief
How you see yourself is how you show up and ask for what you want. Have you ever asked yourself how you talk about yourself? Do you listen to the words that are coming out of your mouth or the thoughts that you are thinking?
Life is supposed to be healthy, wealthy, and prosperous and you are supposed to be fulfilled from within.
That doesn’t mean life has its peaks and valleys; it does, however, by being committed to daily standards life becomes ten times more manageable and you can begin to tell your brain exactly what is going to happen rather than being a reactive force of what is happening in the world.
Ask yourself do you like what is happening right now? Do you like how much money you are making? Do you like your relationship? Do you enjoy the intimacy level that relationship provides you? Do you enjoy the time that you’re traveling or do you wish you’re traveling more?
How do you carry yourself? How is the world around you responding? What do you want out of life?
These thoughts that you’re currently thinking are thoughts that came from within you when you were a child or thoughts you had when 10, 20, or 30 years prior but they are limiting and shaping the world around you; they are simply not true and they are holding you back to creating the life you truly deserve.
So the question becomes how do you create something new? You start by creating a new identity and that begins with your thoughts, language, and standards.
For instance, if you thought you should do things this way because of your old self then I want to begin to challenge you to start approaching things differently to meet the new identity of your new self.
Let say if you’re trying to become healthier and become leaner that requires you to eat more veggies and require you to go into cutting your body. That requires you to enter a new thought process and begin to speak a new language with yourself. This is an entirely new standard that meets your new identity.
Relationships
Now let’s talk about something that not a lot of people want to speak about and that is relationships. This means romantic, professional, and friendship.
Have you ever thought about how you want to be treated? Are you being treated the way you want to be treated?
Are you even having the type of sex you want to have? What about intimacy? Are you waking up at least looking at one possibility that something great can manifest for you in a relationship?
The reason why your relationship is not the way you want it to be is because of the lack of standards you put at the beginning of the relationship and the only one you can blame is yourself but you can change this by starting to put standards with the word no.
Some people are solely in relationships because they don’t want to be alone, or their standard is that they HAVE to be in relationships. After all, they need that validation because they haven’t found that validation from within.
To have any standards, that standard has to come from once again yourself and that fulfillment from within you.
Career
Let’s remove money from this situation and speak about something fulfilling; you want to do something fulfilling that gives back that makes an impact even if it is small.
In what way do you want to give back? Ask yourself that and work your way there.
Next let’s speak about money, if you’re not making the money you think you deserve go ahead and make yourself aware that you can change it by taking the daily action to change it; you’re not stuck at any job nor does your job require your loyalty.
They are not attending your funeral. Nor will they care about you when you are gone. Once you have this mentality things become very different and you can start taking steps for yourself and create the standard for yourself that you are here for yourself to live a wonderful life and not for your job.
Health
Health is wealth. Without it, you’re nothing in this world. Having great mental, physical, emotional, and spiritual health is important.
What is the standard for your health? What do you look like? How does your body feel? If you're a woman, how long is your hair? Is your hair shiny because of all the vitamins you take or the food you eat? What type of food are you eating?
If you’re a man, what type of food are you consuming to develop your muscles? Are you eating the same thing daily? How often do you work out? What type of workout do you do?
How is your emotional temper? How do you process emotions? How do you deal with emotions? How do you go from here?
How is your mental health? Do you see a therapist? What are the issues you speak about? What are you talking about? How do you handle these feelings that come up?
What are your spiritual beliefs? Do you have spiritual beliefs? Are you spiritually grounded and centered?
Having standards within all these fields is the center of creating a well-balanced healthy life that is a Confidently Healthy life so you can upgrade your life.